Dear Vulnerability,

June 7, 2018

 

Dear Vulnerability,

Your rare appearance the other day was actually a welcome sight. I have spent years avoiding meetings with you even taking a longer path or avoiding a journey entirely at just the slight chance we may have briefly interacted.

I’ve grown over the years though. I’ve learned from heartache, forgiven my wrongs and those of others and grown confident despite my insecurities. Through these lessons I have realized just how beautiful you are.

Without knowing you, learning from you and sharing that knowledge with others there is no way to truly discover love. Without your insights I don’t think I’d truly know myself which is key in letting others know me.

Your teachings are valued beyond what my words can express. Thank you for the enlightenment. I believe we will be seeing a lot more of one another, my dear friend.

 Respectfully,

Dana

 

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Dear Rudeness…

June 2, 2018

 Dear Rudeness,

You show up in the least likely of places at times. I admire your boldness, but you still surprise me periodically. Yesterday, after a calm productive morning filled with errands and appointments, I let my guard down. I assumed my full afternoon would be as enjoyable, but you had other plans, didn’t you? In the midst of one of the simplest errands, the shortest interaction of the day, you stepped up.

Your cold words felt like a slap across my face. The chill surprised me and as much as I wanted to slap back, I didn’t. Your attack was not personal; it said more of you than me. I saw in your eyes that my smile and lack of words struck you harder than a ruthless matched comment could of. My well wishes for a pleasant afternoon to you as I walked away seemed to shock you into a speechless frozen state of confusion.

Thank you, Rudeness, for reminding me how even simple phrases can hurt and to take care of what I say to others. Thank you for awareness, especially with strangers whom I only have a brief moment to leave a positive memory with. I pray whatever pain and negativity you are struggling with is replaced with healing and love.

I am sure our paths will cross again and you may lash out, but I will pause before reacting and share patience and positivity in hopes that you will do the same when given the next opportunity.  

 Kind regards,

Dana

Do you have any tips for handling rudeness?

 

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Letter writing & journaling

 

I love stationary, journals and books. I love putting pen to paper and writing a heartfelt note or thank you card to a loved one. I enjoy the process of journaling story outlines, recaps of special days and even to-do lists.

I always write a personal thank you to anyone I have worked with through my freelancing (and love the opportunity to actually mail it out rather than email it).

I even provide a service for letter writing, I enjoy both business and more creative letter writing. Customers value a personalized note and I enjoy writing them! I even speak to small groups about letter writing and walk through a few exercises!

I keep a journal at work to track progress for professional development goals and to record details of new duties/tasks I take on throughout the year so I am prepared for yearly performance evaluations.

I recently started a journal for my young nephew. I record details about family gatherings and important dates, but I also write out memories of some ‘routine’ days that include reading time, walks to the park or first time foods/restaurants. I hope he enjoys reading it in a decade or two!

Do you journal? Do you enjoy the letter writing process? Do you enjoy receiving hand written notes? If so, why? Do you have a small group or club you would like me to present to or send a letter to?
Contact me! Successencourager@gmail.com

http://www.danabuchanan.com/journaling—letters.html

 

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